Sunday, March 25, 2007

Ideal Match...


" OHHHHHH YOU ARE 23 and still not married !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! "

" So when are you getting married ??? "
" What kinda person are you looking for ?? "
" Dont you want to marry a guy who works in the United States of America ??? "
" Are you in love with somebody ?? "


For the last year and a half, I've heard these questions atleast a million times and I always say " donno " ....

The easiest way to escape questions.. and more questions... And at most times these questions actually leave me thinking about what am I looking for in the person I intend to live my life with...

And when I started the count for the *must be and should be 's *, I found that I was dreaming for the unattainable, but I did somehow manage to shortlist all this... :d

He should understand me without words , love unconditionally, trust me, should be * INTELLIGENT *, somebody with whom I can actually TALK and not THINK about what to talk, somebody who respects and loves me the way I am and not expect me to change my individuality for him...

In short, someone who is intelligent, smart, positive, confident, caring, who can always keep me entertained(a very difficult job- i get bored easily!), has an awesome sense of humour,who can accept me for who i am and is completely honest with me always !!!

And its not just difficult but nearly impossible to find a person with all the above mentioned qualities.. So I've decided not to trouble my peanut brains anymore.. :)

As of now... I absolutely love the way I am, and the independent life I live, very happy and satisfied giving all my time to my family and friends.. Nobody to answer, noone to question, no arguments, no ego hassles, no domination, no misunderstandings, no tears, no fears, no insecurities, no sleepless nights...

Life is actually very very peaceful without the word " LOVE "....

The constant flow of questions continues, but now I dont even bother to answer anybody anymore... and no, I am not "LOOKING FOR ANY GUYS "... !!!

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ PEACE ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

2 comments:

Laymiro said...

Mil jayega dont worry. But God save bechara :P

Anonymous said...

hahaha @ pranshu...