There have been a lots of issues of late which have got me thinking.. Numerous posts coming up in the neear future which am gonna write about.And whatever I am putting across are my views and opinions,having been a witness to many incidents and a few from my own experiences..
This post deals with verbal abuse, what I feel about it and what should be done about it..
Verbal abuse falls into many categories, including:
Abusive anger: He would blow up at you.
Criticizing: He made derogatory comments about your weight and figure.
Name-calling: He called you a liar and a hypocrite.
Threatening: He taunted you about his leaving and liking other women.
Blaming: He told you his behavior was your fault.
And these categories are just to name a few.There have been lots of cases where women talk about physical abuse.But nobody talks about verbal abuse, which is the worst form of abuse ever.
When abused physically, the wounds may heal with time. But in verbal abuse, wounds never heal. They leave behind a scar, which can only be felt by the person. A woman when abused verbally, loses self confidence, self-respect and also her value as a person.
More often than not, its not just uneducated women but also literate women who tolerate all the abuse.
Why dont educated women speak against it ?? Is'nt there any law that can protect a woman from verbal abuse ??? Women should come out and talk about it, and only then can there be a solution to it. The guilty must be punished, be it either in the case of physical abuse or verbal abuse.
And someday I definately would want to do something about it, and would be happy if I can bring about a change in the way people think.
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
Saturday, July 21, 2007
Lazy Bug.. !!
Alrite, yeah I know its been a while since I've updated the blog.. :)
People who know me, will understand and agree when I say, I've been lazy not to write.. :P
As of now have updated the layout of the blog and now it looks a bit like me -- " Lively and full of life." :D:D
Lots of thots to be expressed, trying to get rid of the Lazy Bug within me.. :)
But in the meantime, do lemme know how do u like the new *look* ;)
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